luvelle

It always amuses me how unfaithful men manage to hide their secrets so fucking well and yet seem so stupidly trusting. I mean whoa finding girls on Facebook zomg even though you're clearly in a committed relationship with someone else. The part that amuses me the most is how they hide the people they add over Facebook, hoping that the person they're "engaged to" or "in a relationship with" or "married to" does not start asking questions about the weird strange women who start leaving random comments on their profiles.

I remember how I used to freak out whenever my ex-bf's friends list increases and I couldn't see whom he had added (because he chose to hide it) and who initiated the adding (this one no choice, FB doesn't allow people to see who added whom but I could guess from the timestamp, since I knew when he'd be awake or asleep or having meetings or out with me). Not that I want to spy, but when you start hiding things from the start, like putting me on limited friends list when you claim you want to be my boyfriend and spy on my profile/blog yourself, things start getting fishy. Also, when your FB wall posts start disappearing right after you "upped" me from limited list to "real" friends list, it's pretty telling isn't it?

I'm not trying to blast him for being an arse, he probably wasn't, but I highly doubt it knowing his history. Long story short, despite the fact that he changed his relationship status on Facebook, I knew he was hiding me from others since he refused to link himself to me. And yea he didn't allow people to see the pictures people tag of him, hence there really was no way to find out to whom he was attached to. Girls knew he was "in a relationship" but they had no idea who that poor pitiful girl a.k.a. yours truly was unless they saw me in a club wih him, which also doesn't speak a lot because for all I know, he might've been holding a different girl each time he's in a club on the days I refuse to join him.

Okok just in case people think I'm being too ungrateful that he spent shitloads on me, I've compiled a list of "nice" things he's done for me under the cut: ( Nice things he did for me )

I'm thinking, after awhile, people catch on, unless these women are willing to let their men treat them like that in exchange for, let's see, cash and lifestyle? Mmm yes it was really awesome being spoilt like a princess, but that feeling couldn't last long for me. So sometimes I wonder why he was even with me. I mean come on, I'm not stupid. I knew he was hiding things from me. Am I just the "best thing" he could get for that time while he was out hunting for better meat? (Give it up dude, because I will always be the best thing anyone's ever had hurhur.)

These attached men are counting on their luck to not be outed by the "other women", and most of the time they get what they want. And even if they run out of luck, they definitely know how to sweet talk or buy their way back. Of course, there are ways to trick them into be faithful, but no, sorry not on public domain. You wouldn't want the men to catch on to your "games" too either, would you? :P

I'm writing this because I find myself frequently in the position of "the other woman", and like I said before, I do not touch attached guys. ;) But yea, trust that I'm no saint either.

Yikes I just found a big piece of fat in my meat bun, I just threw it away ew, else I'd have to workout extra hard tonight.